Sexy Halloween Costumes to Spice Things Up
Let’s get sexy this Halloween. Sure, you could dress up in the low-maintenance costume you always wear, but branching out is so much fun! Plus, sexy Halloween costumes give you double the bang for your buck: not only can you blow everyone away at the Halloween party, but your partner—or a sexy stranger—might not be able to resist you, either.
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Dungeon Delights
As a game and kink aficionado, I know that dungeons are equally fun when paired with dragons as they are when paired with a consenting, enthusiastic partner. A sex dungeon is a place where you can make all your darkest BDSM fantasies a reality whether you’re a top, bottom, or switch, and that’s something I love to help people do. Let’s talk about some of the furniture and other accessories you might encounter in a dungeon and how to use them safely.
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Horror Fantasies
Spooky season is finally upon us, so it’s time to own up to your most horrifying fantasies. Don’t worry; we all have them—that sexual fantasy that might make someone else’s jaw drop. Fantasies like these are all too common, and they’re nothing to be afraid of. In fact, there’s nothing more fun than enacting something spooky in a safe and consensual way.
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Best BDSM Gear
Anyone getting ready for a BDSM session will need roughly three things to make it successful: the right mindset, the right partner, and the right equipment. Getting good quality BDSM gear is truly the best place to start. It can help you set the scene for intense BDSM encounters, which can help you get into the right mindset. Since I’ve used a fair amount of BDSM gear throughout my career, I thought I’d share my favorites, so that you can properly stock your nightstand for extreme fun.
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Creating the Ultimate Sexual Bucket List
Everyone needs to have a bucket list for sex. Why? Well, it’s one part dreaming about the future, one part total fantasy, and one part strategic planning and goal-setting. It’s a way to get to know yourself and your partner better, to assess your current sex life, and understand where you want it to go. It’s also a good reminder that there are still sexual frontiers you haven’t explored. On a bucket list, you can go a little beyond the realm of what’s currently possible and put down your wildest hopes and dreams for what could be. Without one, you could settle into a routine, which almost always leads to sexual boredom. Don’t do that! Instead, consider my list of ideas below as a jumping-off point for your own sexual bucket list.
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