The Intentional Guide to Better Sex
When it comes to the bedroom, many people just go with the flow. But what if you want to take your love life to the next level? What if you’re looking for something more intimate and connected? Intentional planning is one way to achieve this. In this blog post, we’ll discuss different ways that you can be more intentional with your romantic and sexual encounters. Whether you’re looking to add a bit of kink into your life or want to try a threesome, careful planning can help make sure the experience is fun and safe for everyone involved!
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How to Discuss Group Sex With Your Significant Other
Group sex, threesomes, and orgies are widespread fantasies of not just my clientele, but also of the average human being. It takes a certain degree of self-awareness to determine if you’re interested in actually acting out the fantasies you have or if you’d prefer to keep them in the recesses of your mind. It takes quite a bit more intuition to determine if group sex would be a fun, cool memory to make with your partner or a nightmare that awakens that ugly, green monster: jealousy.
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Benefits of Bottoming
People who have never joined in on all the fun that is held within the letters BDSM often wonder: why do bottoms do it? Who would volunteer to submit, to be restrained, and to face the blurry line between pleasure and pain, when instead, you could be the one in charge? These questions often arise for two reasons: the question asker is a top, or they haven’t realized the many benefits of being the bottom.
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Top, Bottom, or Switch: Where Do You Fit Into BDSM?
To begin, BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism, and these components all involve some form of consensual power exchange during sexual activity. Trying new activities in bed isn’t just fun; it’s good for your mental and physical health. But, understanding whether you’re a top or whether you’re a bottom—in an activity you’ve not tried yet—is intimidating because it doesn’t always correlate with your outside-of-the-bedroom personality. So, if you’re curious about giving bondage a try but unsure where’d you fit into the power dynamics, take the quiz below to find out if you’re a top, bottom, or switch.
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Fun Facts About Foot Fetishes
Every single person on Earth has different turn-ons, and this is a good thing—sexual diversity is necessary for our continued pleasure, in fact. If everyone liked the same thing, not only would the world be a pretty boring place, but we’d all be in pretty heavy competition for the same type of people. For instance, if having vanilla sex with tall blondes (or petite redheads!) and men with strong jawlines was the only kind of sex we all wanted, we’d be having very little sex, except for those who were in hot pursuit. Kinks and sexual deviance make space for more people to have pleasure, and that’s something we can all appreciate. So let’s talk about one of the most common fetishes around: the famed foot fetish.
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Exploring Erotic Massage
Erotic massage combines two of my very favorite things: sexual pleasure and relaxation. Let’s discuss the different types of erotic massage and some tips for giving them a try from the comfort of your own home.
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Healing Sexually From a Divorce
When you get a divorce, you need time to heal. You’re grieving the death of a relationship, of a vision you had for your life, and of an identity you held as a spouse. You must take time to remember who you were before the marriage before moving on to who you want to be, now that you are single again. Sex work can make this process a bit easier and, dare I say, fun. So, don’t feel like you have to go through this alone, when I can partner with you to ease the loneliness and kick start your sexual healing.
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Top 5 Emerging Sex Trends in 2022
Changing the calendar didn't just signify the end of a year—it signifies the start of something new. Just like many times in the past (think about the roaring 20s), tradition was left behind and modernity was embraced in an unprecedented way. That means a lot of changes could be underway for sexuality trends. Below are my predictions for the sex trends emerging in 2022 that could change the landscape of sexuality as we know it.
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Top Five Sex Positions to Try in 2022
There are only so many ways that genitals fit together, but how you fit them together can be life-changing, inspiring, and mind-blowing. So, as we begin a brand new decade, don’t let your sexual routine of yesteryear weigh you down. Let’s consider some new sex positions and promise ourselves that this year will be a year of new paths toward orgasm. I’ve got some ideas below—which are suggestions you can adapt in order to be inclusive of all genders, couple configurations, and abilities— to add to your to-do list.
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Getting Comfortable Talking Dirty
Most people think that dirty talk should come naturally. But when you hear what people say in pornography, that might not be exactly what goes through your head while you’re having sex with your partner. Below are some tips on how to get comfortable with your dirty side and how to get started using your mouth in bed.
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